10.29.2008

Halloween- The Slut for a Day Holiday




Halloween is Friday, and in my true procrastinator fashion I have not gotten my costume yet. There were a few ideas I threw around but luckily, I've nailed it down to 3 options, depending on what I can find out there.

My first choice would be Betty Draper from Mad Men*. Let's face it, she beautiful, lady like and a little crazy...PERFECT. Being a brunette, I thought my biggest issue would be finding the perfect blond wig.

However, after searching around some costumes stores today, I can say that I was more than disappointed. It seems as though EVERY costume is slutty. Apparently you can make anything into a slutty Halloween costume- even the chick from Harry Potter.

Look, I've had my fair share of less than lady like Halloween costumes- slutty school girl, sexy detective, sultry sailor- but I think it is getting to be a bit oversexed.

Case in Point- on the TODAY show this morning, they had a segment about how even the costumes for younger girls are getting more and more risque. Seriously? If you want to see a six year old in a french maid's costume, then you have got some big big issues...

So now that Halloween is the resident Annual 'I can dress slutty and get away with it' Holiday what happens to those of us who do not want to be a sexy _insert costume here_? If I am not interested in being a slutty nurse, or slutty pirate, or sexy gangster, or slutty Alice in wonderland, and would rather hearken back to the days of petticoats and pearls and full skirts, then where do I go for a costume?






*The runner's up are the Flashdance girl because it would be really easy and Sarah Palin.

10.13.2008

DALLAS...UGH

At this point, I wish this could be a better post. For one, I am a huge football fan. I watch and enjoy this sport more than any other. To save you from a long, drawn-out story, here is the reason I, even though I have lived in New York State my entire life, am a Dallas Cowboys fan; because my father loved the team.

Well, that's how it all started anyway. My father's very first NFL game was in Texas Stadium and he loved it more than anything. I don't think it took him more than a few seconds to become a Cowboys fan.

About 16 or so years later, after following this team, living in Texas and then moving back to New York, he remained loyal. Then, I show up. And I have this father who's team is "America's team" but everyone around me hated, because let's face it, everyone was a NY Giants fan. It was not easy being a fan, but being a daddy's girl, and having the amazing team that was Emmit Smith and Troy Aikman, there was no way I wouldn't root for the 'Boys.

So growing up, I loved Sundays. They were lazy, in front of the t.v. watching the football games, people coming in and out, yelling at their favorite players and talking about odds and who would go to the Superbowl.

I have since still loved Sundays (well, football Sundays). There is somehow this feeling, when you have watched and favored a team your whole life, when they finally succeed you feel like you really are a part of it. Even though Tony Romo, T.O. and Marion Barber have no idea who the hell I am.

Having said that, this past Sunday was excruciating; watching my team play messy, get lucky, catch up and eventually have the craziness that was the entire game from beginning, bring them another loss.

But with display of botched plays and a turn-over extravaganza begs one question: Will Tony Romo be able to lead this team the way we all (as fans) think he can? Commentators after the game said when Romo is on he is as good as it gets. I think he's showed he can be a hell of a player with superstar potential. But, superstar athletes tend to make very little mistakes. And lets face it, even though I have been a fan my entire life and do believe Romo is a great quarterback, when he screws up, he really screws up. His mistakes are not always little; in more than one occasion they've cost us the game.

Yet, I still believe, even though he has a little more polishing to do, Romo has the potential to be that superstar quarterback. Face it- he's down right likable, apparently does well with cute blonds, has a sense of humor, and takes the kind of chances in a game that makes the "WOW" plays. He's an all-American guy. We just need him to be an all-American superstar QB. Well, in about 4 weeks once his broken finger has healed. Please Romo- come back with a COMEBACK...

10.03.2008

Wishing my paycheck away...

Ahhh, Fall. I have to say it is my favorite season. I love the leaves, the colors, the crisp air, and especially the clothes. Fall, to me, is the best season to dress for. It is a little in-between with the weather, so I like the variety of being able to wear a dress one day and jeans the next.

I, like many other Americans am feeling the strings tightening on my wallet and disposable income. This is when it bothers me. I am a young professional with a full time job, and finishing paying off school and rent and I hate that I have to watch my pennies. I guess I had this idea that when I finally graduated I would get a job, become an executive and have fabulous clothes-but like every other twenty-something I am still having the find deals at H&M to supplement the fact that I can't afford the type of clothes that really make me look like an high-class executive (and have the money to still have a some-what decent social life).

Well, Se la vie. I am where I am and I am happy to be living in a great City that I know still has many surprises and opportunities in store for me. So on that note, here is my Deals and Wish Lists for this seasons' clothing. Ahhh, fall.

1. Shooties (shoe-booties)

I thought I would hate this little trend, but really, I have warmed up to it. Still, not all of these types of shoes look good on my legs, but there is something about them that makes me feel rocker-chic.


Deal: Nine West -$100







Wish list: Rafe New York , combining 2 hot fall trends- shooties and snakeskin, $395








2. Sweater Vests


Actual knit sweaters in a vest= adorable


Deal: Gap, $38






Wish list: YaYa Aflalo, $245







3. Wide-leg Trousers

Deal: Banana Republic, $110





Wish List: MARC by Marc Jacobs, $258







4. The Perfect Dress- The sleek, sophisticated Shift.

Deal: JCrew, $150






Wish List: Catherine Malandrino, $595





Living in NYC, you can't not associate fashion to fall!!! Enjoy!

8.30.2008

Politics-Women Please read this...


OK, so Politics. It used to be a dirty word for me. You know, it was that conversation I didn't want to get into because I felt like the people that I was talking to were opinionated in a way that I couldn't stand. They stood for something because their parents and grandparents did, but they never really knew why they were taking that position. Or even for me, I will admit that I never really understood, knew enough, or to be frank, cared enough to get into an intelligent conversation about Politics. 

But, NOW, that has all changed. This election that we are embarking on is something that I will never forget. Not just because of the fact that John McCain felt he needed to choose a woman for the VP spot (which I have plenty to rant on later) and we will now indefinitely be making history with the next President and Co, but more because of how this election has made me feel. 

I am inspired. Inspired in a way that I have never been before; by politics, by a man, by anyone or anything really. The things that Barack Obama has highlighted and proposed for this country I am on board with. I believe in him and his ability to lead this country. He has the values that I believe can change the actual mindset of many Americans. He is telling us to work hard. To be the best we can and fight for what we know can be a great country again. And lets face it, these wonderful United States have not been so united or so wonderful in the recent years. 

It is disheartening to me to have to write this next sentence, but this is what I believe: I do not feel that enough Americans have the ability to look past gender, race, discrimination and a blatant 'I am all about me mindset' to elect this man with a landslide.  I am afraid that the intelligent, wonderful, independent women of this country could be blindsided and make a terrible mistake. Here's why:

The newest twist to this election road: Mrs. Sarah Palin. She's a hockey mom, an independent woman and she built herself into a leader in a short, VERY short time. DO I respect this? Absolutely. As a women, I am thrilled that McCain has the balls to throw up this hail Mary and choose her as a running mate. But, that's my inner sister-hood speaking. Now to the facts: She has an incredibly meager amount of experience. She says she is all about reform and throwing the corruption out of government. Kudos. I appreciate that. I do not, however, appreciate that she wants to completely outlaw abortion. Oh, so you're a victim of rape and got pregnant during that heinous crime? Well, that's too bad because you will have to have that child and be reminded every day of something you could not prevent. How the hell is that helping women? Or this country for that matter? You know that whole idea of finding cleaner fuels and getting away from our dependence on oil? How do you think that is really going to go with a VP in office whose husband works at an offshore oil company? And what about her relationship, or shall I say non-relationship, with John McCain? He's met her twice. Twice. This makes it clear to me that the only reason McCain decided on Palin as a running mate is solely for the fact that she is a woman and he needs women's' votes. If nothing else, shouldn't us women see this as demeaning? So here is my message to all women out there:

FORGET that she is a mother. FORGET that she won a beauty pageant and broke through glass ceilings. FORGET that she is a SHE. Sure women are excited that she was the VP choice, because she is a women. But, imagine Mrs. Sarah Palin were a man, and tell me that you agree he has the experience to lead if, lets face it, the elderly McCain happened to have a misfortune with his health. Tell me, if she were a man you would back him up on his policies to outlaw the right of a women to choose what she wants for her body and her life. Tell me if she were a man that you would be comfortable with him saying that foreign policy has really just been an afterthought to him and not really something he has spent time thinking about in the ways of the future of this country. Do you really think that if McCain had picked a male running mate who was, for example, a sole provider for his family and a dedicated father, that you would say , 'well, he understands health care and day care so he will fight for that'? NO! Please, let us all remember how Sarah Palin was introduced as a running mate: with all emphasis on her gender and gender alone. So I am asking you, all women, to PLEASE join me and say I am going to leave my emotions and love for the sisterhood out of this election. I am not going to be vindictive and say that this woman, this inexperienced governor of Alaska, is a trade for Hilary Clinton. She has the complete opposite views and positions as Hilary-just because she is a woman does NOT make her the same. Yes, we want a woman in office, but should we not make sure when this woman is making history that it is the right one? 

So, I will steal a phrase from Mrs. Sarah Palin herself (on her very first political flip-flop about the 'bridge to know where', might I add) when I ask all women to say to the McCain /Palin ticket: THANKS, BUT NO THANKS!